When everything else is stripped away, five simple gifts remain.

A hand at the handle of a red mug of coffee on a table by a window, steam rising off it.

Steam off a cup

Life does not come with guarantees. We labor and build, love and lose, and the harder we try to master it, the more it slips through our hands. Ecclesiastes has a word for that: “hevel,” a breath, steam off a cup on a cold morning.

And God set eternity in us anyway: a hunger for what we can sense and never reach.

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The rule in six parts

  1. 01Three longingsPossibility, Permanence, Perfection
  2. 02The invitation to playEat and drink, enjoy your work, love the people you have
  3. 03Four lensesMaterial, Physical, Relational, Emotional
  4. 04Five giftsFeast with Friends, Do Some Good, Enjoy Your Partner, Share Your Stuff, Opt for Joy
  5. 05Ten forcesSeriousness, Discontentment, Resentment, Time, Religion, Family, Self-Protection, Languishing, Atrophy, Control
  6. 06The PracticesDaily, Weekly, Seasonal

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