When everything else is stripped away, five simple gifts remain.
Ecclesiastes says there is nothing better than to

Steam off a cup
Life does not come with guarantees. We labor and build, love and lose, and the harder we try to master it, the more it slips through our hands. Ecclesiastes has a word for that: “hevel,” a breath, steam off a cup on a cold morning.
And God set eternity in us anyway: a hunger for what we can sense and never reach.
The rule in six parts
- 01Three longingsPossibility, Permanence, Perfection
- 02The invitation to playEat and drink, enjoy your work, love the people you have
- 03Four lensesMaterial, Physical, Relational, Emotional
- 04Five giftsFeast with Friends, Do Some Good, Enjoy Your Partner, Share Your Stuff, Opt for Joy
- 05Ten forcesSeriousness, Discontentment, Resentment, Time, Religion, Family, Self-Protection, Languishing, Atrophy, Control
- 06The PracticesDaily, Weekly, Seasonal
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Nothing Better: The PracticesThe practices for each day, each week and each season, with a column to write your own, and the gifts, the longings and the ten forces on two sheets before them.Download PDF ↓Nothing Better: The EssayThe book in nine pages: the three longings, the four lenses, the five gifts, and how they fit together.Download PDF ↓









